Difference between loving someone and being in love with someone… I saw one has posted this thing in social media and the issues has somewhat caught my attention.
They say when you fall in love, you feel the excitement, the weakness of your knees, and the boom-boom beats of your heartbeat. It is something which uncontrollable. Apparently, the thing “you just know.” But what about, I am just being blinded with the strong feeling that I have for that person? And that it isn’t as clear as water? How on earth really, would I know that I am in love with?
But what exactly are the difference from loving someone and being in love with someone?
Loving someone is some sort of mutual thing, like how you love your parents, your siblings, your pets and even your gadgets! You cared for them, like you have no choice because you know you have to. Someone you are connected and loving them unromantically. While…
Being in love with someone is when you know everything about them, their flaws but still love him/her from the bottom of your heart. It includes romantic feelings, where you want to be with the person and the feeling like you can’t live without them.
It’s a broad definition that one could hardly tell. Like loving a male/female friend without being in love with BUT the chance of falling in love with them is absolutely indescribable. It’s without reason. You would just wake up one morning and have these baffled feeling towards that person. It surely complicates you on how you would treat that person without them giving an impression that you are in love with them. Hence the saying, I’m in love with my best friend! Relate much ka-astig?